I didn’t multiplayer until like early 2013, then I joined a Swedish server which was some kind of pvp. I basically just googled “fun minecraft servers” and took the first thing that came up.
I had no idea what kitpvp was at the time so I just walked into the arena and got killed over and over again. Pretty stupid.
I used to play on playsurvivalgames.com ( It’s not a sever anymore ). I remember accidently buying someone a rank because they asked me to, so I put their name in, then changed my name, and later tried to buy me a rank but forgot to change their name to mine.